5 Reasons 99% of Men is Broke and Depressed (And 10 Ways to Fix It)

In Genesis 17:6, God said “I will make you exceedingly fruitful.”

But if he said that, why is it that so many men is:

  • Living check to check

  • Constantly stressed and depressed

  • Barely able to provide and spend time with they loved ones

And why is it that no matter how hard they try, they just can’t generate more income so they can live a better life?

Before I get into the reasons I think so many men is stuck in this position, I wanna say that I don’t think it’s the economy.

Yea I know the economy is bad and it can make stuff harder.

But it’s a whole lotta people out here that’s still finding ways to get to that bag.

And a lot of them didn’t have a head start just like you didn’t.

So are they better than you?

Fuck nah.

They just know how to get out here and get to it, and create the life they want regardless of what’s going on in the world.

So if you ready to take 100% responsibility for yo life and fully understand that’s it’s up to you to make yo life what you want it to be, keep reading.

5 things that’s stopping most men from reaching they full potential.

I think it all come down to a few mindset mistakes.

And if you stop making these mistakes, then you can have that fruitful life that we all been promised.

1. Being lazy AF

Let’s be real about this.

Too many men is lazy AF. You don’t wanna work. You think everything should be handed to you.

How can you live a fulfilling life if you ain’t willing to get up and go get it?

2. Being negative and complaining

Everything is just oh so bad for you.

But do you know yo mind create yo reality? If you always thinking negative thoughts and complaining, the universe will return that energy to you.

And negative thoughts create more negative thoughts.

Meaning you create a negative ass life.

3. Not believing in yoself

If you don’t believe in yoself, who will?

I’m sorry to tell you this, but the world ain’t got no sympathy for a weak man.

You can’t not believe in yoself and expect to live a good life.

It just don’t work like that playboy.

So if you living check to check, maybe you just ain’t believe in yoself enough to make something else happen?

4. Expecting everything to be easy

Is a real man not supposed to work?

Who tf told you everything was supposed to be easy? And why did you believe it?

It don’t work that way pal.

If you want something nice in life, you gotta get out here and go get that shit yoself!

5. Making too many excuses

Everything you say is excuses, excuses, excuses.

But excuses don’t do shit but build a bridge to nothing.

And they only satisfy the person that make em.

You’d be way better off admitting that you just mediocre.

Cause then you’ll have motivation to change it.

How to go from broke and depressed to paid and happy.

The truth is any situation can be turned around IF you willing to put the work in.

And can even get to a point where you working so hard that other people around you simply don’t understand you no more.

They’ll say you starting to change and shit

But at the end of the day it’ll help you become the man you wanna be, and be able to have:

  • More money

  • Better relationships

  • More free time to spend with yo family

10 ways you can get your shit together.

1. First things first get yo mind right

Yo mind is the start of it all.

If yo mind ain’t right:

  • Yo life won’t be right

  • Yo money won’t be right

  • Yo relationships won’t be right

Nothing gone be right.

So the first thing you gotta do is get yo mind in a good place, so you can have a good foundation to build everything else on.

2. Turn yo negative thoughts into positive ones

This one build off the last tip.

A good way to know if yo mind is healthy or not is to think about the type of thoughts you have.

If they always negative, you know it’s gone be a negative domino effect.

So you gotta practice turning yo negative thoughts into positive ones so you can create a positive domino effect instead.

3. Imagine yoself doing all the stuff you gotta do to be successful

This is still building off the power of the mind.

Hopefully you starting to see a consistent theme here.

Yo mindset is everything.

And you create what you see in yo mind.

So if you can imagine yoself doing all the stuff you gotta do to be successful, you already well on yo way to making it happen.

4. Have a plan

Eventually all the thinking and imagining is only gone get you so far.

So some point you gotta put some structure behind them thoughts.

And that’s where a plan come in at.

A plan is just organizing yo thoughts and ordering yo steps.

And it’s also putting a intention out into the universe that you serious about making something happen.

5. Keep pushing

It’s gone be good days and bad days.

Easy days and hard days.

Seedtime and harvest.

But you only get to the harvest by planting the seeds.

Then showing up day after day after day after day and taking care of em.

And that include working through the storms.

6. Get more reps in. Progressive overload.

You. Gotta. Keep. Showing. Up.

If you ain’t gone keep showing up, what you starting for in the first place?

Don’t fuck yourself over.

Give yourself the best chance to win.

You do that by constantly showing up and putting the work in.

7. Pray. Keep God first. Walk in yo purpose.

Anything is possible when you got God on yo side.

He already laid yo path out for you.

But only he know the full direction of that path.

And most importantly, he know all the roadblocks he laid out for you along the way.

And the only way you can get past em is to consult with him about it.

8. Journal

We back to the mind again.

You see how the mind is such a important part of every piece of this puzzle?

I can’t stress it enough.

Yo mind is yo most important asset.

You gotta use it.

And you can make it sharp by journaling.

Get all the bullshit out.

Notice the patterns.

Build it up.

Write yo way to self awareness and clarity.

9. Meditate

Back to the mind again.

Do not neglect yo mind. If you do, you’ll stay stuck.

I promise you.

Meditating is just like journaling but different.

They really just 2 sides of the same coin.

Do both of em to get the best results.

10. Keep God first

God told you he’ll make you exceedingly fruitful.

He ain’t lie about that.

But too many men ain’t holding up they end of the deal.

Keep consulting in God as his word.

Keep him first on yo path.

Walk in the purpose he gave you.

And you will eventually get everything you looking for.

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